Not necessarily, there are many things that determine whether or not a person is gay/lesbian/bi-sexual.  It is not necessary to label ourselves as either gay or straight.  Factors that influence our sexuality are, the feelings we have for people (attraction), the thoughts we have for people (fantasies) or, who we choose to have sex with and/or express other forms of attraction toward (behavior).  You are the only person that can answer this question for yourself. Many youth are going through the same feelings that you are.  If you want to talk to someone about questions you have about being gay or bisexual, contact the Rainbow Resource Centre at 478-1160.  They also have a youth group available that meets weekly.